Acceptance
When we
are about to face new world, we’re going to be worrying about acceptance. Like
me, who gonna meet up soon with new friends, new family, new environment in my
new college on the end of this August. Will they like me? Will they accept ‘the
real me’? Those kinds of question keep haunting me lately.
Dude, I
realize who I am. I’m not a pretty and smart girl. It’s gonna be tougher for me
when first time meet people. Because, some people do not really get into quote:
“Don’t judge a book by its cover”. Oh, I’m ho.. ho.. hoping I won’t find some
of them in my college. HAHA, it sounds impossible :p people like ‘that’ are
spread around the world.
After I
spent through some ‘galau’ night, I’ve decided what to do about ‘acceptance’.
First, you
have to be the ‘true me’. Accept who you are. Feel perfect with your imperfect.
Don’t change who you are just to be accepted. OH Bloody hell, I always hate
fakers! I don’t want to be of them. Fakers are people who never do ‘be your
self’. They would become different person in each different situation. What I
hate from fakers is their smile. Oh my.. How can they smile on what they don’t
like? And how some people couldn’t realize those fake smiles? They make me so ‘ilfeel’
-___-
Second,
if they have not accept your presence, you must accept theirs first. It’s like
a quote: ‘Respect others, if you want them to respect you’.
Third,
if someone doesn’t accept your presence, then go find someone does. But, you
must find the reason why they don’t accept the ‘true me’. It might be you are
less humble, rite? Haha ah you need to fix it. If they still ignore you, then
don’t waste your time to resist them. Because I’m sure there’s someone who will
accept the real you. That person maybe easily found, maybe not :P
That’s
it.I hope we'll meet new friends, new family, and new environment that accept us the way we really are. Amiin.
you can girl! :D
ReplyDeletehuhuu atuut :(
ReplyDeletesama lah be. semuanya orang baru. tapi tetep semangat lah :D
ReplyDeleteini hanya masalah kebiasaan :)
yg aku butuhkan sekarang itu positive thinking! bingung, mau nyari dimanaaaa --"
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